How to deal with cyber bullies and bullies?
Posted by chillygurlz on October 13, 2008
Bully Willy: picking on Chillygurlz, you have 4 eyes, ur a nerd, i don’t care hahaha, “picking on her more” I’m cool, i’m better then you.
Chillygurlz: knock it off, no i’m not 4 eyes, Ur such a bully said to Willy.
Hello… what you just saw, that is a bully in person… ok now let me show you cyber bully…
Willy: hahaha I want to gossip about Chillygurlz, u want know a secret about chillygurlz? don’t tell Rita,
Chillygurlz: “checking e-mail” whoa, someone calling me wimpy.
What u saw, that is bully acts, of course it not nice to be a bully to someone. the person who tends to be a bully at anyone has problems with low self esteem, they are not really happy with them self, course they won’t admit it. so they want to pick on ppl cuz they think it makes them feel better. they just want attention, they think, “oh i’ll make someone feel bad so i can feel good”. sometimes bullies have low self esteem because maybe their family ignore them or there is no love in the family so they feel angry inside and go out pick on ppl. in some cases, the bully came from loving family but they just don’t care. what can we do about those bullies? instead of reacting to the bully, try just ignore them or walk away, if u feel danger, then go report them. because when you react to the bully then your giving them exactly what they want. other things u can do is, sidetrack the bully by changing topic, talk about something else.
October 14, 2008 at 12:15 am
I saw about Bully and cyber-Bully seem childless and behavior is not acceptable when I saw on DeafVideo.tv by former blog/vlog which he should not put their video in his website is not acceptable which it is steal their vlogger’s belongs.
How can they abused on everyone on DeafVideo. I agree with Rita’s comment seem awakenen for vlog who want to prevent their cyber-bully. It is kind of mess up! One of vlog from DeafVideo were angry about cyber-bully over about her drug habit. it was not true and accused her by one of former vlog. I think you need to report police after you need to RED Flag to youtube.com about their abuse need to stopped!
Deaf Pixie
October 14, 2008 at 8:21 am
I think you are too kind to these bullies ! ‘low esteem’ ? they are doing everything but hit you physically. People have had breakdowns and all sort via cyber-bullying. The cyber buly is dedicated to disruption, they are clever and very adept people. The key is to stay with larger ‘official’ sites, with strong guidelines you can see enforced, and avoid sites or blogs that are obvious cliques too. Many deaf go online because social interaction on the street is difficult, they are vulnerable to these bullies. Cyber-bullies know all the dodges, the false and numerous addys they can use, spoof sites, comment manipua;tion to force angst, even use quite genuine causes to launch sites, so they can reel in vulnerable deaf to lay into them, they are horrible people. The issue is world-wide, so aggregates are one place where moderators can help out, however included blogs can still abuse, if not by their main topics, via allowing nasties in their comment sections… many are not following the golden rule, when it gets personal that’s it… you are out.