Being gone for two and half weeks is a long time to be away from the blogosphere. It’s nearly impossible for me to catch up with everything that’s taken place. What is clear is that a lot of former DBC members are unhappy with what DBC’s done, and things have turned nasty as a result.

I’m not going to say very much on this subject, because others have made quite eloquent statements that I can’t really add to, except that I agree with them, such as Anne Marie, Amy Cohen Efron and MishkaZena. I can vouch for what they have said on the v/blogs, as I was a witness to what happened to them when they were in DBC’s core group. They are great people, extremely credible, and I think it is a disservice that there are certain individuals trying to drag them down, when they are trying to tell the truth in hopes of making DBC a better organization.

Being told the truth isn’t always easy. It can be often raw and painful to swallow. Right now at this moment, I think it’s pretty safe to say that the Deaf Community is reeling in shock from Barry, Amy, MZ and Anne Marie’s revelations. I hope we as a community are able to come to terms with this, and begin to discuss the questions of, “What now?” and “How do we ensure something like this doesn’t happen again?” If we don’t do that, then all of this controversy would be for nothing.

DeafRead is a place where we can hold that dialogue. For it to be successful though, it’ll require being able to face the truth head-on, and respectfully come to terms with it. That will also require a critical mass of us as well. I consider DeafRead as a virtual cafe where we all can meet and debate those issues that impact our community. People will come and go, but there are regulars who will always stay, and that’s what makes DeafRead such a great place to visit. But sometimes the regulars step out for a while, to face and deal with their own personal truths.

And so, I am stepping out for a while, because it needs to be done. By no means is this permanent - I will be back. This is a great place to make a difference, and that’s something I’ve always wanted to do. But sometimes, to be able to make a difference for others, you gotta make a difference for yourself first.

I wish you all good luck, and I will still be watching what’s taking place. Be well.

Yours truly,

A Deaf Pundit