28th May 2008

Rabbi says deaf ‘ineligible for conversion’

posted in Current Affairs, Deaf, deaf culture |

When I attended a Jewish Day School (called Yeshiva), I remember a class lesson on conversion. Rule #1 in conversion - You cannot convert to Judaism to just marry someone you love. Being Jewish is more than just a piece of paper. It means keeping kosher, attending the synagogue, educating your children in Judaism, follow the mitzvahs (as best as you can) but above all, to live in a Jewish life to the best of your beliefs. Not to say “I’m Jewish, now let’s get married, and please pass the bacon.”

This deaf lady wanted to convert to Judaism to marry someone she loved. The rabbis should’ve ruled that it’s impermissible to marry for love, and stop right there. But no, that’s not the reason why she couldn’t convert. The reason is that “those who cannot hear, cannot fulfill mitzvoth and therefore, believes rabbinical court in 2008, cannot convert to Judaism.” And that’s what this controversy is all about.

Keep in mind that I’m not ignoring or putting down the rest of the non-Orthodox in the Jewish Deaf Communities. The issue is that the ruling was made by a group of Orthodox Rabbis interpreting the Torah and the Jewish Laws their way. So I want to focus on this from their Orthodox angle.

What is an Orthodox Jew? “Orthodox Judaism has held fast to such practices as daily worship, dietary laws, intensive study of the Torah, and separation of men and women in the synagogue.” In other words, to worship daily is a Mitzvah, to study the Torah is a Mitzvah, etc. (Mitzvots is a plural form of Mitzvah). So basically the Rabbinical Court is saying that deaf Jews can’t pray, can’t study the Torah, etc. And this is not the first time they’ve ruled this way. There has been numerous rulings against the Jewish Deaf people simply because can’t do mitzvots. What’s different is that this is year 2008 and we know now that Jewish Deaf are capable of performing Mitzvots, and that the Rabbinical Court needs to be educated why this ruling is so outdated today.

The Israeli Rabbinical Court should visit Baltimore where Orthodox Rabbi Fred Friedman and Rabbi David Kastor lives.

The Israeli Rabbinical Court should visit Nefesh Dovid, the world’s only Orthodox Deaf Yeshiva High School for boys in Toronto.

The Israeli Rabbinical Court should attend the annual Melave Malka held by Beth Torah of the Deaf in Brooklyn, NY where many Orthodox Jewish Deaf gather once a year.

I personally call on Orthodox Rabbi Eliezer Liederfiend of NCSY- Our Way to immediately call the Chief Rabbinical Court to tell them not only that their reasons for their ruling is wrong, but that it is so damaging and dangerous to the Jewish Deaf Community.

The Jewish Deaf community is already facing an estimated 90%+ interfaith marriage rate. The Jewish Deaf community is facing intense pressure from the Christian Missionaries. This ruling is just adding fuel to the fires. I’m willing to bet that the Christian Missionaries are already printing copies of this article to show the next time they target a Jewish Deaf to convert. Oh yea, this will make their job a lot easier!

I don’t think the Rabbis have thought of the consequences of this ruling. And the Chief Rabbinical Court have made a mockery of Judaism, because this is just one of the many crazy and inconsiderate rulings to date. For the sake of the ENTIRE JEWISH COMMUNITY, The Chief Rabbinical Court deserved to be roundly condemned and replaced immediately!

Update: The Rabbinical Court can be enlighted right in their backyard with the Orthodox organization -   Council of Young Israel Rabbis in Israel’s Judaic Heritage Program for the Deaf and Hearing Impaired.

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  1. 1 On May 28th, 2008, RLM said:

    I am all for your fight for the real “deaf” justice within the Israeli Rabbinical Court.

    People in general, need to learn how to compromise or alternate the way of life than binding to the so-called Orthodox Judaism all the way.

    I am much aware of the past prejudices and discrimination against deaf Jewish boys to be maz tolvich (msp.). I do not meant any disrespect if I mispell this term for Jewish boys going into the manhood.

    Robert L. Mason (RLM)

  2. 2 On May 28th, 2008, jsg said:

    Do you mean Bar Mitzvah?

  3. 3 On May 28th, 2008, Dianrez said:

    This distresses me because we are losing diversity we value in our community by losing practicioners of Jewish tradition. I agree with you completely that the missionary churches are eager to convert those who are forgotten by their own religions.

    I am not Jewish and respect Judaism as a historic religion; one with solid, culturally based and ethical values and emphasis on humanity just as importantly as other religions.

    Hopefully your blog awakens the Orthodox rabbinical courts to the losses happening in their own midst and to revise their mindsets.

  4. 4 On May 28th, 2008, Jewish Guy said:

    Interesting, I wouldn’t dispute on the issues you raised.

    My parent was gone, and the Rabbi recognizes me as one of the minyan and anytime I had to say kaddish, they waited until I finished it. Respect for me as a deaf man is there.

  5. 5 On May 28th, 2008, RLM said:

    JSG,

    Yea! I could not think of “Bar Mitzvah” back this Wednesday morning.

    More and more deaf boys finally be allowed to take the Bar Mitzvah due to the re-interpretation fo the Torah.

    I am really thankful of the Jews and Muslims for their contribution to the entire world with the “kosher foods” practice. Same thing with the real intellectual contributions from many Jewish people over centuries

    Robert L. Mason (RLM)

  6. 6 On May 29th, 2008, Audrey Lubow said:

    This ruling is very hurtful and so wrong for so many reasons.

    I’m not deaf, but very hard-of-hearing. One of the most painful struggles of my childhood was not being able to learn to read Hebrew. I began to despise Hebrew School and all things having to do with it.

    To me being raised Jewish, is about so much more. During my college years, learning sign language gave me an opportuntiy to finally compete academically.

    I worked at Hillel and taught a class in Sign Language.

    Through the years, I have had many coversations with G-d and we haven’t always seen eye to eye. But no matter what — I am a Jew down to my last gene.

    My daughter born to a Gentile father and me, her obviously Jewish mother, — choose in 5th grade to actively pursue a Jewsih Day school Education. She brought me and others in our family back to our roots. I prepare to say goodbye, as my daughter will be in Israel for the 3rd time. This time is different, she will be spending a year at Hebrew Union College.

    While I am not a convert, who are we to deny those who quest for our natural brith right, the same opportunities.

    We are a much different world, with different needs, we can learn so much from those who want to join us at Temple and Torah.

    We are dwindling and many customs are dying out, we need to extend a hand and welcome those who deeply feel a Spiritual Need to join us.

    A. lubow
    LA, CA

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